I am in the mid-life of my professional career.
I have a poster in my office area at home which reads, ‘Say YES to Adventures’.
I mention this poster because I can identify that it is not always easy saying ‘yes to adventures’ in our career, and for seasons perhaps even impossible . Unfortunately, however, there are a number of regrets that people may have by the time they reach their mid-life professional career, and one of them is:
“I wish I hadn’t listened to others about what I should study and pursue.”
In truth, there are many people who have a deep sense of regret and pain because they feel like they are living a life that is not theirs but anothers when it comes to their working, career life.
Perhaps when they began their working or studying life, there were authority figures in their life – like good intentioned parents – who strongly encouraged them to pursue a certain direction. Years and years go by until they find themselves in their mid-life and mid-life career and it hits them big time – they feel like they are in the wrong job and pursuing the wrong goals.
In this case, adventure could be saying yes to your authentic self; your passions, your strengths and what you want to be pursuing for the second half of your life.
My husband, Mark, and I have undertaken many times what we call THE GREAT WHITEBOARD MID-LIFE AUTHENTIC-SELF EXERCISE either for ourselves or for friends at their mid-life point. This exercise is not done in isolation, or just with a partner but with a small trusting group of friends. We honestly and together write up their passions, strengths and dreams to help support a good understanding of themselves which has more often than not led them saying, ‘YES TO NEW ADVENTURES’ and forging a fresh career path.
I have very recently, taken up yet another adventure in my mid-life professional career, which has resulted in me taking on the CEO role of a not-for-profit organisation South Coastal Health and Community Services, working in the area of health for women, children and families. I took on this role not because I didn’t love being a part of the team and work of where I had contributed for nearly five years at Rise Network but because I wanted to keep growing, learning, stretching and having a sense of adventure in my professional life.
Mark undertook a big adventure five years ago, undertaking full-time studies to be a Clinical Psychologist in his late 40’s. It was a huge step, a risky adventure as a family, but it was not undertaken on the whim of an afternoon in the sun, but as a result of THE GREAT WHITEBOARD MID-LIFE AUTHENTIC-SELF EXERCISE with friends and family that led him to pursue a career that could build on his business and organisational strengths and years of experience in leadership and life, to really support people, leaders and organisations when they felt overwhelmed, stuck or wondering ‘what next’?
So friends – no regrets when it comes to saying ‘YES TO ADVENTURES AND YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF’.
Always love your encouragements … not sure what path to pursue next myself however am working on it! Maybe I need to try the whiteboard experience… thx Penny for sharing at life level x
Wonderful, Penny!! You are such an inspiration and a great leader!!
Would love to know more about the white board exercise you refer to. Can relate to this article at many levels.